To be a good man is not coming from you this mean that you will not be the person who will said that I am a good man, I help people, people like me, they are happy when they see me, my presence rejoice them.
To really know what people think about you is to listen them speak about you when you are absent. Many people who have money don't really know the way to bring help for people in needed. Please give the opportunity to tell you this little story.
One man Mr Richard he had money a lot to take care of himself and his family, all around him people was suffering I mean they were poor they had money but no like Mr Richard. Almost every evening Mr Richard was joining the local bar near his house to wash football with others parents and some young men. Most of time after making his order beer, he asked to serve all those who were seated near him.after taking their beer people were happy and said thank you, sir Richard you are really very nice. It was like this always every weekend when Mr Richard was in the town, some people had just only tin the bar because they should receive the beer from him. One day Mr Richard had a confrontation against one man (Albert ) and the man told him " Is it because you give beer to people here that you think you are important ? "
Just to tell you dear friend to be a good man is not to pay people with what the like, some people like alcohol, another money if time to time you can give them little money they will be very glad, others like just connection if you can connect them to someone whom can help them with what they need it will be great for them.
But dear readers I want to give for all of you this secret : A good man is the person who want for others love, joy, peace, kindness and goodness. Do you know someone who have money and want this qualities for others ? Of course no, because many of rich man want people always to look for them, to always come to ask money, materials, advices...
I knew a man that I can qualified as a good man, may be you will said that he was good for me but the true is: We know the importance of someone with his act and also when he is absent.
To be a good man bring your help to someone who need it really. I have this example Mr Atangana the English teacher have two student Belinga and Bopda. The first semester Belinga had 12/20, Bopda 07.5/20, the second one(semester) Belinga had 09/20, Bopda 09.5/20 and the third semester Belinga had 08/20, Bopda 12/20. In the end the booth student had a total of 29/60. But the director of school ask to mister Atangana to choose one student among those who fail with 29/60 to make him pass. Do you know what happen?
Mr Atangana choose Belinga and make Bopda fail, after few years we ask him why he choose Belinga he said " Because he speaks the same language with me, is coming from my village I didn't have a choice." Could you imagine with all the effort Bopda did, just because is coming from different village. But in the end Mr Atangana bring his help to someone who was glad. But I used this opportunity to tell you that after rich in the next class Belinga fail because his level wasn't good.
Friday, June 22, 2012
Wednesday, June 13, 2012
How to choose his wife
A proverb Bamileke (Banounga) said "the goat grazes where it is attached" This means that
your wife is not someone who will come from heaven or from the other side of the sea she shall be a person you already know, she can be your neighborhood, classmate, colleague or friend of a friend.
Life show that we have told a man he is great because it has a wonderful wife.
Most people think that your wife can be your best friends, is not so false because you share many thing with your best friend.. how could you choose a best wife? First of all she has to be a person you have a respect for her, a person you can cry, laugh or sing without any stress. Someone who can laugh even when you said a bad jokes. someone who has tried to support you even when you are in the shame, someone when after have a discussion with her even when she has nothing to reproach herself , when you have fixed the problem she want to have a little reproach just to make you happy or to show that you were not very wrong. For some people it must be their hero in their lives.but we know that is very difficult to be with your hero even if is happen you can be surprise or disappointed.
I asked to Mr Noah in private what made you know that Katia was the woman of your life. He said "I knew her when I was student we have good relationship but I decided myself when she paid my last year of study." Mr prelude answer the question in this way "I had several relationships at once when I went out with her, but the day she told me that she was pregnant, I decided to make her my wife not to create a disorder in my life"
For Mr Romuald is not him decided to take Maria as a wife is the condition of the life, I ask him for us why? he said "I was a student, a good student, I lost my father who was the one who paid my studies, I was broke, my resident permit was almost finished, I could not go back home, because my program of study was not finished and I did not have enough money to go start a good business. the only option I had was that I got married and very quickly, my plan to succeed I had to choose a desperate woman who would need as soon a husband in her life, this is why I chose Emilie."
To remain anonymous we will not show you the picture of Emilie, but we can tell you that Emilie weighs 132 kg and measuring 1m53 and she is handicapped. This explanation has pushed me to come back the day after to see Emilie alone to ask her in private, how she knew that Mr Romuald was the man of her life ? Her answer "this is the nicest boy I know he is loving, kind is the only person who made me dream, it takes care of me like a princess and she loves me with all his heart."
Love is magic and the magic of love is to know what you think of your lover. You can ask yourself such questions I may love him ? Is it good to me to share my life with him ? am I feel safe with him or with her ?
Many people make a mistake, because they focus on what the beloved think about them, the advice of their family, colleagues, neighbors and friends.
Your comments are welcome
your wife is not someone who will come from heaven or from the other side of the sea she shall be a person you already know, she can be your neighborhood, classmate, colleague or friend of a friend.
Life show that we have told a man he is great because it has a wonderful wife.
Most people think that your wife can be your best friends, is not so false because you share many thing with your best friend.. how could you choose a best wife? First of all she has to be a person you have a respect for her, a person you can cry, laugh or sing without any stress. Someone who can laugh even when you said a bad jokes. someone who has tried to support you even when you are in the shame, someone when after have a discussion with her even when she has nothing to reproach herself , when you have fixed the problem she want to have a little reproach just to make you happy or to show that you were not very wrong. For some people it must be their hero in their lives.but we know that is very difficult to be with your hero even if is happen you can be surprise or disappointed.
I asked to Mr Noah in private what made you know that Katia was the woman of your life. He said "I knew her when I was student we have good relationship but I decided myself when she paid my last year of study." Mr prelude answer the question in this way "I had several relationships at once when I went out with her, but the day she told me that she was pregnant, I decided to make her my wife not to create a disorder in my life"
For Mr Romuald is not him decided to take Maria as a wife is the condition of the life, I ask him for us why? he said "I was a student, a good student, I lost my father who was the one who paid my studies, I was broke, my resident permit was almost finished, I could not go back home, because my program of study was not finished and I did not have enough money to go start a good business. the only option I had was that I got married and very quickly, my plan to succeed I had to choose a desperate woman who would need as soon a husband in her life, this is why I chose Emilie."
To remain anonymous we will not show you the picture of Emilie, but we can tell you that Emilie weighs 132 kg and measuring 1m53 and she is handicapped. This explanation has pushed me to come back the day after to see Emilie alone to ask her in private, how she knew that Mr Romuald was the man of her life ? Her answer "this is the nicest boy I know he is loving, kind is the only person who made me dream, it takes care of me like a princess and she loves me with all his heart."
Love is magic and the magic of love is to know what you think of your lover. You can ask yourself such questions I may love him ? Is it good to me to share my life with him ? am I feel safe with him or with her ?
Many people make a mistake, because they focus on what the beloved think about them, the advice of their family, colleagues, neighbors and friends.
Your comments are welcome
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