How was life before google?
Nobody can deny that google is a part of daly life of many people. Now you can educate yourself on what you want, in any area, from any angle and you are sure to get the answers or at least clues to answer.
For many people the creation of google has the same effect with the creation ox computer, is a rzvolution, the end of one circle. Any kind of work, from the smallest to the largest we used google.
Professor Nkouengoua Guylain has put his students challenged to find an area in which you can not use google.
Something is sure that google is used in all major sectors. The police used it to solve crime or to understand criminals. Criminals used google to better prepare or to rectify their mistakes. The doctor uses google for research, students to learn, traders to buy or sell and the street man for various reasons.
If all this is true it means that before google there was no life ?
Does that mean that before September 4, 1998 date of starting of search engine google there was no life on earth ?
To better understand what our lives could be without google, we have to look back in the past and then look where in the world google "is not accessible"
Google makes life easier, others says it makes no slacker. Jackson dean letter to Texas says : " In my time to understand the meaning of word, you had to go to the library and you could dig two to four dictionaries in order to understand the word. By doing that in the end, you discovered other words flipping through pages. But now with google you have have Everything in one click. "
Sunday, November 10, 2013
Wednesday, May 1, 2013
How to face his wife
First of all let us definite what's a wife. In Hebrew the word for woman is "ish-shah" which literally means "a female man"
For many people a good husband is an happy man, a great person, and most of us agree that behind every great man there is a great woman. Is it mean that there is any problem between them ? We know that is not possible because the perfect couple not exist, in that case how to face his wife when there is problem ?
To answer this question we have many approach as religion, African point of view, European point of view and life experiences of life.
This problem how to face his wife is not a problem at all for christian ( by saying christian people is really people who follow the law of Christianity ). Because we know that for christian according to 1 Cor. 11:3 " But I want YOU to know that the head of every man is the Christ; in turn the head of a woman is the man; in turn the head of the Christ is God." if you respect that the headship of the world is God and the headship of Christianity is Jesus, you must respect that the headship of woman is a man, because is the law, Sarah the woman of Abraham used to call him my mister. But we know that the husband don't have absolute authority over his wife, because he must answer to his head for the way that he exercises such headship. this is to show us how the husband have to take care of his wife, by doing that is to deal good with her, because they are only one flesh, by doing that he will face his wife in a good way. The religion ask us to take care of our wife like our own body, in any sense we will not hurt our body is mean that we will take good care of our wife. But is that what happens?
For many European, marriage is not anymore a serious matter you can easily understand by the increase of number of divorce every year. I asked for us Mr. Valentino a married man for 25 years in Italy how is facing his wife. He said " I consider my wife as a good friend, we share almost every of our free time together, as a good friend I know what she hates and what she likes. when we have problem, the first thing I am doing is to take time alone to think about the problem, and after I speak calmly as a friend with her, most of the time we succeed to fixe the problem." We asked the same question to Xavier a married man for 6 years in Paris, he said " if a problem arrive between my wife and me I will bring her gifts, every day one until she forgive me if I am the cause of problem."
For African people, is may seem easy to face her wives, the number of divorce are low and the "happy family" are many (live together forever ). To understand this we ask questions for some great man, I ask the same question to Mr. Taba how to face his wife? He said " in the beginning it was difficult but I can easily understand my father when he asked me to take a wife that I will be her elder for 8 years at least. Because if your wife is in the same age with you, you cannot lie to her. And to face your wife is not to beat her, like in the past, is just knowing to lie to her and by doing that well she will trust you. And you will not have any problem."
But life show us another thing, for many people, girls from American and European love African Boys because they are good in bed. It is true ? We asked the question to Mark a African boy. He said "it may be true, but something is sure to face my wife is not easy, I have many Europeans friends, I think the difference is that African boys take more care of wife. they do not buy big cars and flowers but they are always listening and they know when to said no".
For many people a good husband is an happy man, a great person, and most of us agree that behind every great man there is a great woman. Is it mean that there is any problem between them ? We know that is not possible because the perfect couple not exist, in that case how to face his wife when there is problem ?
To answer this question we have many approach as religion, African point of view, European point of view and life experiences of life.
This problem how to face his wife is not a problem at all for christian ( by saying christian people is really people who follow the law of Christianity ). Because we know that for christian according to 1 Cor. 11:3 " But I want YOU to know that the head of every man is the Christ; in turn the head of a woman is the man; in turn the head of the Christ is God." if you respect that the headship of the world is God and the headship of Christianity is Jesus, you must respect that the headship of woman is a man, because is the law, Sarah the woman of Abraham used to call him my mister. But we know that the husband don't have absolute authority over his wife, because he must answer to his head for the way that he exercises such headship. this is to show us how the husband have to take care of his wife, by doing that is to deal good with her, because they are only one flesh, by doing that he will face his wife in a good way. The religion ask us to take care of our wife like our own body, in any sense we will not hurt our body is mean that we will take good care of our wife. But is that what happens?
For many European, marriage is not anymore a serious matter you can easily understand by the increase of number of divorce every year. I asked for us Mr. Valentino a married man for 25 years in Italy how is facing his wife. He said " I consider my wife as a good friend, we share almost every of our free time together, as a good friend I know what she hates and what she likes. when we have problem, the first thing I am doing is to take time alone to think about the problem, and after I speak calmly as a friend with her, most of the time we succeed to fixe the problem." We asked the same question to Xavier a married man for 6 years in Paris, he said " if a problem arrive between my wife and me I will bring her gifts, every day one until she forgive me if I am the cause of problem."
For African people, is may seem easy to face her wives, the number of divorce are low and the "happy family" are many (live together forever ). To understand this we ask questions for some great man, I ask the same question to Mr. Taba how to face his wife? He said " in the beginning it was difficult but I can easily understand my father when he asked me to take a wife that I will be her elder for 8 years at least. Because if your wife is in the same age with you, you cannot lie to her. And to face your wife is not to beat her, like in the past, is just knowing to lie to her and by doing that well she will trust you. And you will not have any problem."
But life show us another thing, for many people, girls from American and European love African Boys because they are good in bed. It is true ? We asked the question to Mark a African boy. He said "it may be true, but something is sure to face my wife is not easy, I have many Europeans friends, I think the difference is that African boys take more care of wife. they do not buy big cars and flowers but they are always listening and they know when to said no".
Friday, June 22, 2012
how to become a good man
To be a good man is not coming from you this mean that you will not be the person who will said that I am a good man, I help people, people like me, they are happy when they see me, my presence rejoice them.
To really know what people think about you is to listen them speak about you when you are absent. Many people who have money don't really know the way to bring help for people in needed. Please give the opportunity to tell you this little story.
One man Mr Richard he had money a lot to take care of himself and his family, all around him people was suffering I mean they were poor they had money but no like Mr Richard. Almost every evening Mr Richard was joining the local bar near his house to wash football with others parents and some young men. Most of time after making his order beer, he asked to serve all those who were seated near him.after taking their beer people were happy and said thank you, sir Richard you are really very nice. It was like this always every weekend when Mr Richard was in the town, some people had just only tin the bar because they should receive the beer from him. One day Mr Richard had a confrontation against one man (Albert ) and the man told him " Is it because you give beer to people here that you think you are important ? "
Just to tell you dear friend to be a good man is not to pay people with what the like, some people like alcohol, another money if time to time you can give them little money they will be very glad, others like just connection if you can connect them to someone whom can help them with what they need it will be great for them.
But dear readers I want to give for all of you this secret : A good man is the person who want for others love, joy, peace, kindness and goodness. Do you know someone who have money and want this qualities for others ? Of course no, because many of rich man want people always to look for them, to always come to ask money, materials, advices...
I knew a man that I can qualified as a good man, may be you will said that he was good for me but the true is: We know the importance of someone with his act and also when he is absent.
To be a good man bring your help to someone who need it really. I have this example Mr Atangana the English teacher have two student Belinga and Bopda. The first semester Belinga had 12/20, Bopda 07.5/20, the second one(semester) Belinga had 09/20, Bopda 09.5/20 and the third semester Belinga had 08/20, Bopda 12/20. In the end the booth student had a total of 29/60. But the director of school ask to mister Atangana to choose one student among those who fail with 29/60 to make him pass. Do you know what happen?
Mr Atangana choose Belinga and make Bopda fail, after few years we ask him why he choose Belinga he said " Because he speaks the same language with me, is coming from my village I didn't have a choice." Could you imagine with all the effort Bopda did, just because is coming from different village. But in the end Mr Atangana bring his help to someone who was glad. But I used this opportunity to tell you that after rich in the next class Belinga fail because his level wasn't good.
To really know what people think about you is to listen them speak about you when you are absent. Many people who have money don't really know the way to bring help for people in needed. Please give the opportunity to tell you this little story.
One man Mr Richard he had money a lot to take care of himself and his family, all around him people was suffering I mean they were poor they had money but no like Mr Richard. Almost every evening Mr Richard was joining the local bar near his house to wash football with others parents and some young men. Most of time after making his order beer, he asked to serve all those who were seated near him.after taking their beer people were happy and said thank you, sir Richard you are really very nice. It was like this always every weekend when Mr Richard was in the town, some people had just only tin the bar because they should receive the beer from him. One day Mr Richard had a confrontation against one man (Albert ) and the man told him " Is it because you give beer to people here that you think you are important ? "
Just to tell you dear friend to be a good man is not to pay people with what the like, some people like alcohol, another money if time to time you can give them little money they will be very glad, others like just connection if you can connect them to someone whom can help them with what they need it will be great for them.
But dear readers I want to give for all of you this secret : A good man is the person who want for others love, joy, peace, kindness and goodness. Do you know someone who have money and want this qualities for others ? Of course no, because many of rich man want people always to look for them, to always come to ask money, materials, advices...
I knew a man that I can qualified as a good man, may be you will said that he was good for me but the true is: We know the importance of someone with his act and also when he is absent.
To be a good man bring your help to someone who need it really. I have this example Mr Atangana the English teacher have two student Belinga and Bopda. The first semester Belinga had 12/20, Bopda 07.5/20, the second one(semester) Belinga had 09/20, Bopda 09.5/20 and the third semester Belinga had 08/20, Bopda 12/20. In the end the booth student had a total of 29/60. But the director of school ask to mister Atangana to choose one student among those who fail with 29/60 to make him pass. Do you know what happen?
Mr Atangana choose Belinga and make Bopda fail, after few years we ask him why he choose Belinga he said " Because he speaks the same language with me, is coming from my village I didn't have a choice." Could you imagine with all the effort Bopda did, just because is coming from different village. But in the end Mr Atangana bring his help to someone who was glad. But I used this opportunity to tell you that after rich in the next class Belinga fail because his level wasn't good.
Wednesday, June 13, 2012
How to choose his wife
A proverb Bamileke (Banounga) said "the goat grazes where it is attached" This means that
your wife is not someone who will come from heaven or from the other side of the sea she shall be a person you already know, she can be your neighborhood, classmate, colleague or friend of a friend.
Life show that we have told a man he is great because it has a wonderful wife.
Most people think that your wife can be your best friends, is not so false because you share many thing with your best friend.. how could you choose a best wife? First of all she has to be a person you have a respect for her, a person you can cry, laugh or sing without any stress. Someone who can laugh even when you said a bad jokes. someone who has tried to support you even when you are in the shame, someone when after have a discussion with her even when she has nothing to reproach herself , when you have fixed the problem she want to have a little reproach just to make you happy or to show that you were not very wrong. For some people it must be their hero in their lives.but we know that is very difficult to be with your hero even if is happen you can be surprise or disappointed.
I asked to Mr Noah in private what made you know that Katia was the woman of your life. He said "I knew her when I was student we have good relationship but I decided myself when she paid my last year of study." Mr prelude answer the question in this way "I had several relationships at once when I went out with her, but the day she told me that she was pregnant, I decided to make her my wife not to create a disorder in my life"
For Mr Romuald is not him decided to take Maria as a wife is the condition of the life, I ask him for us why? he said "I was a student, a good student, I lost my father who was the one who paid my studies, I was broke, my resident permit was almost finished, I could not go back home, because my program of study was not finished and I did not have enough money to go start a good business. the only option I had was that I got married and very quickly, my plan to succeed I had to choose a desperate woman who would need as soon a husband in her life, this is why I chose Emilie."
To remain anonymous we will not show you the picture of Emilie, but we can tell you that Emilie weighs 132 kg and measuring 1m53 and she is handicapped. This explanation has pushed me to come back the day after to see Emilie alone to ask her in private, how she knew that Mr Romuald was the man of her life ? Her answer "this is the nicest boy I know he is loving, kind is the only person who made me dream, it takes care of me like a princess and she loves me with all his heart."
Love is magic and the magic of love is to know what you think of your lover. You can ask yourself such questions I may love him ? Is it good to me to share my life with him ? am I feel safe with him or with her ?
Many people make a mistake, because they focus on what the beloved think about them, the advice of their family, colleagues, neighbors and friends.
Your comments are welcome
your wife is not someone who will come from heaven or from the other side of the sea she shall be a person you already know, she can be your neighborhood, classmate, colleague or friend of a friend.
Life show that we have told a man he is great because it has a wonderful wife.
Most people think that your wife can be your best friends, is not so false because you share many thing with your best friend.. how could you choose a best wife? First of all she has to be a person you have a respect for her, a person you can cry, laugh or sing without any stress. Someone who can laugh even when you said a bad jokes. someone who has tried to support you even when you are in the shame, someone when after have a discussion with her even when she has nothing to reproach herself , when you have fixed the problem she want to have a little reproach just to make you happy or to show that you were not very wrong. For some people it must be their hero in their lives.but we know that is very difficult to be with your hero even if is happen you can be surprise or disappointed.
I asked to Mr Noah in private what made you know that Katia was the woman of your life. He said "I knew her when I was student we have good relationship but I decided myself when she paid my last year of study." Mr prelude answer the question in this way "I had several relationships at once when I went out with her, but the day she told me that she was pregnant, I decided to make her my wife not to create a disorder in my life"
For Mr Romuald is not him decided to take Maria as a wife is the condition of the life, I ask him for us why? he said "I was a student, a good student, I lost my father who was the one who paid my studies, I was broke, my resident permit was almost finished, I could not go back home, because my program of study was not finished and I did not have enough money to go start a good business. the only option I had was that I got married and very quickly, my plan to succeed I had to choose a desperate woman who would need as soon a husband in her life, this is why I chose Emilie."
To remain anonymous we will not show you the picture of Emilie, but we can tell you that Emilie weighs 132 kg and measuring 1m53 and she is handicapped. This explanation has pushed me to come back the day after to see Emilie alone to ask her in private, how she knew that Mr Romuald was the man of her life ? Her answer "this is the nicest boy I know he is loving, kind is the only person who made me dream, it takes care of me like a princess and she loves me with all his heart."
Love is magic and the magic of love is to know what you think of your lover. You can ask yourself such questions I may love him ? Is it good to me to share my life with him ? am I feel safe with him or with her ?
Many people make a mistake, because they focus on what the beloved think about them, the advice of their family, colleagues, neighbors and friends.
Your comments are welcome
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